If We’re Going to Be Friends… Let’s Talk Vitamin D



I’ll just say it upfront: If you want to be my friend, you need to know your vitamin D levels and they need to be toward the top.

Vitamin D gets nicknamed the sunshine vitamin, but for most of us, sunshine alone doesn’t cut it. Geography plays a huge role here, especially if you live north of the 37th parallel (which includes most of the United States).

Here’s the science-y but important part: above the 37th parallel, the sun’s angle from fall through early spring is too low for your skin to make meaningful vitamin D (even on bright, sunny days). Translation? From about October to March, vitamin D production from sunlight is essentially turned off.

Add in sunscreen (important!), time indoors, skin tone, aging, and busy lives and deficiency becomes incredibly common. In fact, an estimated 40% of adults in the U.S. are vitamin D deficient or insufficient, with even higher rates during the winter months and among people living north of the 37th parallel.


Why Vitamin D Matters: Bone Health and So Much More

Vitamin D is essential for strong, healthy bones, playing a critical role in calcium absorption and long-term bone integrity. But its impact doesn’t stop there. Adequate vitamin D levels also support:

  • Immune function and the body’s ability to fight infection
  • Muscle strength and balance, helping reduce fall risk
  • Mood and cognitive health
  • Inflammation regulation throughout the body

This makes vitamin D a foundational nutrient, one that supports structural health while also influencing how we feel, move, and function every day.

Low levels can show up as fatigue, frequent illness, muscle aches, low mood, or bone loss. These are symptoms many people live with without realizing vitamin D may be part of the picture.

Why Supplementation Is Necessary

Very few foods naturally contain vitamin D, and even fortified foods rarely provide enough to maintain optimal levels. For those of us living north of the 37th parallel, supplementation isn’t optional, it’s practical.

For many people, vitamin D supplementation is the most reliable way to:

  • Maintain healthy levels year-round
  • Support immune resilience
  • Protect bones and muscles long-term

The goal isn’t just “normal”, (30-100ng/ml) it’s optimal above 70ng/ml. And that’s where testing and intentional dosing matter.


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Want more on vitamin D? Listen to the podcast this week.

In this episode of Intentional Living with Emlah, I dive into why vitamin D isn’t just a vitamin, it’s a hormone-like regulator that plays a role in immunity, mood, bone strength, and cardiometabolic health. I walk you through how to take it correctly (timing matters, fat matters, and yes, magnesium matters), why K2 is a key part of the conversation, and why “within range” isn’t the same as optimal.


This week, I was reminded that intentional living often shows up in the quiet, inconvenient moments. I started developing a cough, and with a podcast recording scheduled, I felt hesitant and honestly a little sad about the idea of canceling. I was sitting in that space of pushing through versus pausing when my son Timchia looked at me and said, in the most respectful way, “Let me think… what would Dr. Emlah, the intentional living coach, recommend if I were in that position? She usually tells me to listen to my body when it whispers. I wonder what her body is trying to tell her.” In that moment, clarity arrived. I stopped negotiating with myself, honored what my body was asking for, and hit send on the message to reschedule. It was a small decision but a powerful reminder that integrity means living the lessons we teach, even when it’s uncomfortable.


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